The full stomach aching with turkey, stuffing, pigs-in-blankets and well-roasted sprouts; good cheer and bad cracker-jokes. The warm, comfort of sinking into a chair and into yourself – this is peace and joy, albeit brief an confected, but peace and joy for the moment.
Do you ever think of others, in unhappier lands? The joy of Christmas is hard to find where war or disorder are running over your home. Peace is an illusion. (“the nature of War, consisteth not in actuall fighting; but in the known disposition thereto, during all the time there is no assurance to the contrary.“) We are happy here in Britain, which is rare in this world.
The song sung two decades ago to raise money for the Communist-induced famine in Ethiopia begged us to ‘Pray for the other ones’ and it is a good thing. It does not call upon us to feel guilty as our joy when others have none, though we may have taken it that way. To pray for them – we should indeed.
To feel guilty though – there is no sense. You, settling full into your sofa, are not causing any suffering to others. Indeed, your day’s excess may have helped them – guzzling on chocolate indirectly helps the growers in West Africa (the only person it hurts is yourself.) The ‘consumerism’ and ‘conspicuous consumption’ lamented from many a pulpit encourage international trade and prosperity. We can deplore the separation of the individual from God and reflecting his love for our neighbours, and consumption can have that effect, but the consumption itself is a positive thing for the financial health of others.
The odd thing about a secularised Christmas is that it has gathered around it still a mythology of purpose drawn from Christian faith – peace and goodwill to all men are Christian ideas, and somehow the custom of secular celebration has absorbed these into its matrix. If a giant turkey, a raft of bad jokes and a silly film on the telly reconnect even the most heathenish to their neighbour and unite society, then it has done well.
I do weep for those entering a harsh Russian / Ukrainian winter without sufficient warmth or shelter, or who have no home in a war-shattered city by the Dnieper or the Nile or the Levantine coast, and for the forgotten millions in the bloody turmoil of the anarchic Congo or Sudan, and those countless elsewhere who have not been able to grasp such prosperity as to let them eat. If I can in my little way work to make the world a better place where some sustainable peace comes then I will. Maybe the blessed rest from toil over Christmas will light an idea or two, or maybe not. One thing is that I will not regret my Christmas nor the peace and joy it brings, and neither should anyone.